"Most Wonderful Place!"

I made the initial decision to go to rehab, but my parents found Paradigm for me, and I couldn't have been happier! I thought that getting treatment could only happen in hospitals, not in such a wonderful environment as that of Paradigm. As soon as I got there, I was met by an incredibly supportive staff, who had a lot of experience and could relate to things that I was going through. Also, the other kids were just as supportive, right off the bat. Paradigm is so special, in that it provides a warm and comfortable environment to make progress and start recovery in. It also offers different types of therapy, such as art, music, and drama (all of which I found very very helpful, considering it can be easier to express what you feel through creative outlets other than simply talking).
There are three beautiful houses that the kids may stay in, which definitely makes the process more comfortable, and allows for a more nurturing environment. The idea of having a safe and happy environment really sets Paradigm apart from other rehab facilities. It made me feel very at home, like I could relax and be myself throughout the recovery process. I really felt like all of us became a big family.
Paradigm helps both clients and their families to foster healthy lifestyles that will benefit recovery, once they leave. The staff make it very easy for clients and their families to share what they feel, and what progress is being made through weekly family sessions, and a big family group discussion on Saturdays, where every family can come and talk with each other. As for the kids discussing and sharing with each other, there are process groups where they can all say what's been on their minds, relate, and validate each other. It is a completely safe environment. In my time there, I never felt like there was something I couldn't share.
Personally, I cannot think of a better decision you could make, than going to Paradigm Malibu. I wouldn't be anywhere near as healthy and happy as I am today if it weren't for the help that I received, and the relationships that I formed there. If you are seeking treatment for yourself, or a loved one, and are looking for a comfortable and unique place to heal, Paradigm is definitely the place for you!

"The Best Place On Earth."

Paradigm Malibu was one of the best experiences I have encountered. It truly helped my addiction. They had staff there that went through similar realities that I did. There was always someone to talk to 24/7 and I would recommend it to any adolescent who is facing a difficult point in their life. Since going to Paradigm Malibu, I am very close to being 2 years sober.

"A life-changing experience"

I stayed at Paradigm (Meadows house) for two months. I was struggling with many things, including self-harm and suicidal ideation. I had been in hospitals before, and was used to strict professionals who were just there for the paycheck. I got there with a closed mind preparing myself for the worst: . I couldn't have been more wrong.
i walked into a beautiful house with tennis courts, a pool, and spotless rooms. The other clients were in school (3 hours set apart for schoolwork or therapy work) when I came, but a client came to greet me, saying how excited they were to have me here. I was immediately put at ease.
The staff there are incredible. They are truly passionate about their job, and it shows. Apart from ever so patiently leading groups and chaperoning us at activities, they are open and caring and can tell when you're feeling down. They have changed my life and inspired me.
A common concern may be the clients. I know my mom was scared to send me off because she didn't want me to be exposed to things or be in danger. But I can honestly say that all of the clients were there because they wanted to get better. They were all very nice people who not only cared about their self-improvement but cared about the people around them and contributed to a safe, positive environment. They were (and still are) another family to me. We became very close friends and still serve as accountability to each other.
It should go without saying that the therapy was truly life-changing. The staff to client ratio is very high, meaning that at almost any given time you could ask to talk to somebody. The groups were honest and open, and therapy was incorporated into almost everything we did, even the conversations we had with our fellow clients. The one-on-ones I have had with staff and the conversations I have had in group have left a lasting imprint on my life and have changed me for the better.
Overall, Paradigm Malibu helped me turn my life completely around. I walked in a struggling, hopeless girl who thought she was broken beyond repair, and I walked out with feelings of hope and worth that I hadn't felt in over a year. There are so many memories of wonderful people and stories that will forever remain in my mind. They make me glad to have called that place home.

"Amazing"

I was a patient at Paradigm for 2 months and I can undeniably say that Paradigm has changed my life. When I first arrived, I was naturally terrified. My biggest worry is that I would not 'fit in' because God knows how hard it is for teenagers to make friends in new environments. However, I can 100% reassure you that you will make some of the most meaningful relationships of your whole life. I met other kids who were similar to me when I had existed in a world for so long thinking I was alone. The staff there is so, so kind and the activities they plan are playful yet sincere. I 100% recommend Paradigm Malibu for you (or your child). And the first few days are rough. They really are. But things get better. Your whole life gets better. You meet kids you can really rely on. And you meet adults who won't betray or leave you. I wish I had gone to Paradigm earlier in my life, honestly. But nevertheless, some of the best days of my life happened while I was there.

"Wonderful and necessary experience!"

This was a wonderful expierence for me as a teen that was struggling with so much and not knowing what to do. I'm so great full for the staff, therapists, and directors of this program for helping me realize my capabilities to handle what life throws my way.

"Thank You"

There is no simple way to summarize my experience at Paradigm. It was tumultuous, trying, and overall some of the hardest months I’ve ever had. But all of it was incredibly necessary. Paradigm made those months MEAN something. They made those months bearable to the extent possible. Paradigm made it so that those months saved me.
I came into Paradigm after a purposeful overdose; I was ready to take my own life. Paradigm was my parents’ last hope; they trusted Paradigm with my life. I wish I could say there was one thing that changed my whole life and made my depression subside. Then I could simply tell others to just do that ONE thing and everything will be better, but in the end it was a combination of things that changed everything.
It was the early morning surfing, the ice cream runs, and the hikes. It was the morning and evening group therapy, the family sessions, and the amazing meals. Paradigm is the perfect balance between fun and serious. I spent many nights crying about my past, but also many moments contemplating how the things I was doing at Paradigm weren’t so bad… so maybe I didn’t have to die?
To say that I loved the staff is an understatement. I feel so blessed to have worked with so many amazing people. They completely transformed my life. I felt truly loved and taken care of.
People might think of treatment as this grim place where they are trapped, but for me Paradigm was what freed me. I am now living my life, happily and healthily. I owe everything to Paradigm, although I don’t think these words express my full gratitude, I would like to just say Thank You.

"Paradigm Malibu changed my life."

My experience at Paradigm was an experience that I will always remember. The staff is some of the best therapist in the country. I felt the most comfortable I have ever felt in a house before. There are other kids in the house that are the same as you, have the same problems and are trying to get better for the same reason.

"Paradigm is a Lifesaver!"

Honestly, this was one of the best decisions I've made in terms of treatment. The therapists are great, the other staff are fantastic. Good food too! The continual scheduled therapy was extremely helpful in the healing process. I made so many good friends and the opportunity to return as alumni is a weight off my shoulders.

"An Experience that Changed My Life"

As a patient at Paradigm, I first was resistant to treatment and getting help at all. I made this very clear to the staff, and to say the least I was a challenge. I thought I could push them away and they'd want me to leave so much they would just send me home early. However, the therapists and employees at Paradigm didn't give up on me. Each one of them provided me with constant support, guidance, and an optimistic outlook. I grew to love the staff, the other clients, and built amazing connections with each individual. Paradigm was amazing at providing their teens with a safe, trusting, comfortable setting and community. I felt a genuine connection with the therapists and clinical assistants, as they cared for each client of theirs. After a 60 day stay, and intense therapy after my in-patient treatment therapy, I am now a freshman at the University of Wisconsin-Madison, happy, and most importantly-- healthy.

"Saved my life."

I had the privilege to get treatment through Paradigm Malibu. I stayed for 60 days and it was the best decision I have made in my life. From the first day I went in I felt the love and acceptance. They set me up with the best psychiatrist so that I would detox safely. The psychiatrist has a lot of experience and so they knew exactly how to treat me. Also the therapist working there are all very loving and understanding. They won't judge you nor make you feel any less of a person for your past. They just try to build you up and let you have a truly amazing experience. Their are at least 3 staff on duty at all times and out of those 3 staff their is a therapist. Which to me was very useful so that I could just pull the therapist aside or even one of the clinical assistance and just talk about what is bothering me and I can just vent to them, they were always very supportive. Paradigm always met my needs as well, if someone in the house was bothering me they would sit down with them and talk about it, if I wanted more orange juice they would go get me some from the store because I did love my orange juice. All in all I had an amazing experience here and the staff made my experience even better.